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I've become She my younger self dreamed of

When I was in high school, I had big dreams that fueled my drive. I put in effort and long hours to position myself to achieve them. Over time, I’ve realized it’s natural to always set new goals — to keep striving, to want more. But in the process, I’ve sometimes forgotten how far I’ve come. I’ve been doing amazing. The hours I’ve put in were not in vain.

Here’s a list of the things I once dreamed of, things I actually achieved. These are the moments my younger self would be proud of. And the woman I am today — the one my teenage self dreamt of — she did it

My Achieved Milestones

  1. I got a bachelor’s pass and made it into university.

  2. I received a merit bursary for the first year of my university studies.

  3. I was funded by NSFAS from my second year onward.

  4. I moved into a single room in third year (oh how I love my space).

  5. I was honoured with an invitation to join the Golden Key International Honour Society.

  6. I passed my final year with all distinctions.

  7. I got a job and worked for 5 years.

  8. I bought a spacious 2-bedroom apartment at age 23.

  9. I started a business selling my second-hand clothes, furniture, and décor pieces.

  10. I converted my large living room into a third bedroom.

  11. I began renting out two of the bedrooms.

  12. I quit my first post-university job and still had enough income to pay my bond.

  13. I’m now in a relationship with a man who sees me, listens to me, puts in effort to make me happy, and has a beautiful soul.

  14. I received a scholarship and enrolled for my second degree — a BBA.

Personal Reflections

From my observation:

  • Giving my life to God has been the best decision I’ve ever made. He loves me deeply and wants me to win.

  • God doesn’t place desires in our hearts for nothing — He plants them because He already knows the ending and the best version of who we are meant to become.

Looking Ahead

Moving forward, I want to be intentional about celebrating my life every day — by reflecting on what has already worked out, acknowledging my heart’s desires, and putting in my best effort to turn my dreams into reality.

Currently, I’m focused on:

  • Finding a second job, and

  • Investing time in learning how to grow in the property business — even without upfront funding.

That’s where my heart truly is.


Celebration Suggestions for Each Milestone

  1. Revisit your high school yearbook and write a heartfelt letter to your younger self.

  2. Treat yourself to a special meal or a mini solo celebration.

  3. Light a gratitude candle or say a prayer for the support you received.

  4. Plan a peaceful solo day — music, journaling, rest, and your favorite things.

  5. Frame your Golden Key certificate or create a small wall of achievements.

  6. Share your all-distinction story with a mentor or friend — remind yourself you earned it.

  7. Write a reflection on how your work experience has shaped you.

  8. Host a cozy celebration at home — even if it’s just for yourself.

  9. Invest in a small business tool or write a vision plan for your brand.

  10. Document the transformation with before/after pics and post your win!

  11. Use some rental income to reward yourself with something meaningful.

  12. Journal about your courage and how you made it through that transition.

  13. Write a note or plan a date with your partner to celebrate love and mutual growth.

  14. Buy yourself a new journal or planner to track your academic and business goals.


I've become She my younger self dreamed of.
Responsible. Smart. And most importantly — still going for it.

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